Love & Relationship Journey
From Skeptic to Believer
What is the Law of Attraction? Why Should I Believe in It?
Ask, Believe, and Receive, the Law of Attraction, a Secret of the Universe. Several years ago, I heard of the law of the Universe through the famous movie “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne.
Your thoughts become things. Whatever is going on in your mind is what you are attracting.
It was fascinating, but I was not a person who believed that life was made to be easy. I let the idea of ordering what I wished, pass by.
The Story of Miracle Man Changed My Mind
One day, on the darkest night of my soul, The movie, Secret” came across my sight again.
When I have nothing else to believe and hope for, I opened my heart to hear.
The story of the miracle man, Morris E. Goodman intrigued my curiosity.
He survived a plane crash with the help of an attached survival kit next to his bed that kept him alive.
He couldn’t move, speak, and swallow. Only his eyes could blink and that was how he could communicate his need.
The doctor announced the hurtful medical opinion that he would never walk, breathe, and eat by himself again.
Nevertheless, that was not what he believed. Each day he visualized himself breathing, eating, speaking, and walking again.
By the power of his thought, his body corresponded to its master, the mind.
He not only fully recovered but also became a motivational speaker and shared how he applied the secret of the mind of man to people around the world.
Applying The Law of Attraction to My Love Life
I was amused. I tracked down all the possible information available about the law of attraction.
I ate, breathed, and slept yearning for knowledge of the Universe and indulged myself in knowing more of what the mind could do.
Those secrets became synchronized within me. My life started to change positively. I applied the law of the Universe to a hopeless area of my life, Love.
I dated a lot of men. The more men I met the emptier I felt. The numbness from the past pains prevented me from feeling that feeling.
I was longing for the one, like walking in the desert, dying for a sip of water. I wanted to love and be loved. I was desperate enough that one night, I asked the Universe.
My First Love Request: A Rich, High Procession Man
“Dear Universe, Can I ask just anything?
If you can, please give me a good-looking young man with a high profession. He must be rich.” I commanded.
“Please The universe makes sure he has an amazing luxury apartment downtown in the city,” I added. I was so done with the cheap dates.
“Last thing! He must love me. Thank you.”
I submitted my last order and then forgot about it.
The Universe Sent Me a Nerd, yet Wealthy.
A week later, I received a long message on an online dating application! The message was as long as all the letters I received from every man I dated in the last three years combined!
Well, I was slightly exaggerating, but now you know how desperate my love life was in those years.
Not only that it was long, but it also came in a formal old-fashioned, enclosed with best regards.
He introduced himself along with his family background, education, and work experience, including his hobbies.
I read his biography several times to make sure that he didn’t miss sending it. He might be looking for a job, not a girlfriend.
However, I decided to meet him.
Why not?
It was not so often I would meet a young professional-looking American, exclusive director of a large company, who received first honors in a business degree.
It was not just any University but The University of Pennsylvania, a top 5 in the world in the business sector.
Apparently, he was a nerd, but I liked it.
I received exactly what I ordered but why could I be happy?
This man was exactly what I asked from the Universe. He lavished me with his love and luxury life.
He took me on greater experiences than I’d never imagined, a meal that cost as much as my monthly spending.
He lived in a luxury serviced apartment next to the most extravagant shopping mall in Bangkok, including, a twenty-four-hour service butler that was waiting for us to call to pick up noodles from Chinatown.
Unfortunately, there was no spark in the relationship from the beginning and until the end.
Despite how incredible things were, I was not happy. I was not in love. I left the relationship once he wanted me to meet his parents.
It was an end.
Good Man Existed. The Law of the Universe was Real!
Although he was not the man of my life, I was grateful. Being showered by his love healed the wound in my heart. He was the reason I believed that a good man existed. The law of the Universe was real!
Second Love Request: A Hot Artist
I did not doubt the law of the Universe anymore, but I doubted whether or not I knew what my desire was. Anyway, when in doubt, I gave it another try! And so, I asked:
“Dear Universe, I believe in you. Sorry for challenging you with the previous request. The guy you sent last time was exactly what I asked for. Sorry, I sent him back. Money was not my true happiness. Can we try again? This time, I would preferably wish for a lover, a romantic one, or an artist. Can you please make sure he is handsome perhaps a model or ex-model, that level of hotness? I will be very appreciated. Thank you.”
A Hot Dude was Delivered like Magic.
In less than a week, The Universe started to take action! I received a message from a hot Australian dude on Tinder, the woo-woo online dating application.
The first date was full of romance. I couldn’t stop staring at his beauty, checking the box for a handsome man.
He played guitar! The box of an artist was checked. He acted for Sony’s first flat TV advertisement when he was a teenager. He was damn handsome with his sleepy eyes. The ex-Model list was checked!
At this point, I had absolutely no doubt about the law of attraction. It was science. It was provable.
Love Crashed . . . Again!
Anyway, that love affair didn’t last very long. The big lousy sign kicked in on the second date.
He told me how violent his mom was and how his sister got caught having sex with a stranger in Sydney opera hall and became headline news.
Followed by a series of narcissistic messages back and forth and it was an official end. I was glad I’d never met him again.
Finally! I Learned . . . The Key to Manifest
It was another love story that crashed. Despite the disappointment, I got a clue. Finally, I knew how the law of the Universe worked.
I felt the privilege of having a favor from the Universe as if I just received a VIP member of a secret society. I felt in control.
I learned what had been missing in my request. It was too superficial. I focused too much on external qualities.
What the point if I got all I asked, but I was not happy? I needed to ask for happiness and how I wanted to feel.
Yes! FEELING.
It was a FEELING that had been addressed from my previous wishes.With confidence, I had no hesitation in deleting all dating applications. I didn’t need the help of technology as the Universe was my best friend.
The Last Love Order of My Life
I went to my secret sacred space to make a request. There was magic about this place. The wall was painted with Thai art, displaying the Lord Buddha story from over a thousand years ago.
The golden Buddha Statue, triple the size of an average human was in the middle of the room.
His eyes were gracing downward, looking at me with love and compassion. I sat down and prayed.
“Dear Universe, my Lord Buddha, consciousness and all sacred holy beings”
I called in all possible forces on Earth as in Heaven to hear me.
“I desire,” I declared clearly. “For a man with a beautiful heart, no matter of his possession. Let him be the man that holds the key to my heart, and opens my eyes to the beauty of love. When we meet, a spark of joy unites us deeply. We will be learning and growing together as we develop our love.” As I prayed, a warm mist of peace appeared in my heart.
“Universe, I hope it doesn’t sound superficial if I wish him to be good-looking, young, and healthy.” I added. I couldn’t help admiring the beauty.
How I Met My Husband
3 months later,
I met Charlie, my husband when I least expected on one fine evening during the entrepreneur seminar in Bangkok.
His existence brought the light into my heart as beautiful as the morning itself.
My whole body was shivering with some mysterious energy like a fresh breath of winter blow-by as if I remembered this soul in front of me.
Six years later, we got married. (Check out our Thai- Wedding)
He is the proof that I am not alone. I am well taken care of by someone or that something called the Universe, Divine, or God and I am grateful.
My wish was fulfilled and I learned the greatest lesson of the law of the Universe.
I can say enough that what happened to me is possible for everyone. Love is there right around the corner waiting for you to discover. All you need to do is know how you want to feel.
My name is Lita Jane.
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